The key to your dreams

Hi everyone so I have been in and out of posting then not posting for quite some time now and I must admit I do enjoy posting it feels that I can make a little difference if however minute in some ones life (even if they laugh at my grammar ) that I have some how fulfilled one of my lives desires to be kind and aid in what ever I can I don't have loads of money to spend nor loads of time to give so hopefully I can share of the great things I either read or happened to think on . . .

So I have a very small message to share to the world today one I am sure I read somewhere or just made the assumption of it from the goods I have read in the past few books. . .

The Main Key to success in my mind is very simple it is so simple that we essentially all know what it is . . .It is the core fact that if you know where you want to be your mind will find a way there yes you know what to do more of how to learn and change and change your approach everything is known to us we where all born into it but like a great company slogan I read said "It begins with me" essentially I take the meaning that all your dreams all your hopes and your wishes depend on only one thing you or in my case me and that is how easy it is all you need to do is put in all the things you think of and all your effort and you will get there . . .

Like the guru's say to be the best you have to give your all! If it is important enough for you you will pu in everything you can and everything you put in time, effort, study, perseverance and I can go on and on we all know its what we put in that we will get out!

So go out there and without fail push further and do more and achieve your destiny the one you sought so dearly let nothing stand in your way (My favorite movie quite "Surfs Up") winners don't give up they find a way. . .Let the clouds breathe your name stand tall beyond the stars and take hold of your life drive it forward be more be worth more as you know we are able to do!

Vision

Hello successful people, I have a short little message today vision not what your vision is or how you envision it but what your mind eye sees. . .All the success coaches always say envision it have a clear picture in your head and loads of times I heard it but never have I actually engaged myself in seeing the true outcome. .I let your imagination run and see IT in your mind let your mind create the circumstances you want in your life and let your sub conscious work on it dream it while you are awake view it over and over in your mind the way you want to look the car you want to drive the house you want to live in the people you want to be around everything play it in your mind make a clear picture and then make sure you set your plan in motion plan it on paper plan it out work it out and achieve it!

My Reflection of the past year

When in review what can I say it has been a year of new experiences some was very negative, and some not so much some good some bad some exciting and some just not even worth thinking about. . . The year had its massive ups and some even bigger downs. . Some so down that I now firmly believe that without grace it could have turned out quite different . . .

So in reflecting on the year the highlights at first glance seemed slightly overshadowed by some serious happenings yet: I made more money in one month than ever before although this year has been my lowest earning year in about three to four years , and yes that ads up unfortunately. I am working very hard to change that for the New Year. . .

I learned a couple of big things the past year not all positive yet still very valuable lessons, I learned that I can sustain myself on my own from my own with some effort, I learned that there is very few people who you can really rely on but they will quickly show you who  they are, I learned that having a positive outlook on even the worst of things can change the outcome for yourself, I learned that the world stands still for no one or nothing and many more little things and bigger things but let’s get down to the year. .

What I've lost a bit in the past year . . . it’s what at the core makes it seem like such a bad year however I am still here and that for itself is something to be very grateful for. . The forever that was promised to me was quickly forgotten to my dismay for another’s  companionship however I have been feeling it for some time, I lost having the dearest two pieces of my heart around me every day, I lost the use of part of my back however by grace it will be erased,  I lost some hero’s, I lost more than just a few fake friends, I lost everything I built up for the past 10 years, I lost faith in humanity however I found it again, I lost my appetite for sugar, I lost my car, I lost the son that wasn't mine by his own choice. . .I lost my future and our destiny I lost the planned out life I dream about, I lost a few family members, I lost some weight, I lost some keys a little money some respect and more than just a few hours in time, I lost a bit of reality. .but what comes next makes it all seem so small like the wise men always say never let the past control your future. . .  

But after the losses I found things that were much bigger than the things I have lost I have found a spark in my soul, and a new spirit to live on and go for more. I found a new light where there was before just darkness and unhappiness, I found power within where there were none before I found a piece of myself that just keeps moving forward no matter what, through hardships and heartache, I found caring people where I never thought I would, I found opportunity in loss, I found invaluable knowledge, I found my bodies strength through its hardship. . I found salvation through perseverance, I found a new destiny, I found a new future I found that those who truly matter will stand up when it really matters, I found greatness in those who seemed weak, I found myself new and I found myself driven . . . I found bonds that cannot be broken by the wrongs of others, I found happiness inside . . . I found my bottom and started climbing right back. .

So after all it has been a massive year but the more I reflect on it the better it becomes definitely one that will for ever be imprinted in my brain, one I shall not easily forget but for the lessons and not the neglect. .

I look forward to a new year a year that is more than just filled with promise but a year that is filled with happiness joy and more of the good I look forward to touching my dreams and holding hands with destiny. . 

I look forward to receiving more and giving even more I look forward to living more and learning more I look forward to being surprised and being amazed I look forward to health and wealth, friendship and fantasy all coming true for I look forward mostly to live in my dreams and be who I have always intended to be I look forward to helping those in need and making a difference I look forward to every day and every moment that comes my way I look forward to every breath and every second I look forward to another year of life. . .

Make your own destiny by fueling your dreams. . .

So who am I to claim any success or even give advise on anything about success, I have to admit I am not the guru who sells tapes and I have no profitable mass business that is worldwide, I have some experience in being part of the universe for a while I have all my limb by the grace of God, I have some income and a roof over my head. . just an average Joe with some big dreams. . .So why am I so honest today? cause I feel I have to to share some motivation. I have worked hard all my life and attained some level of success and due to some unimaginable circumstances lost almost everything. By the Grace of God again I breathe every morning and health is still on my side I have been retrenched check lost my family check lost most of my possessions check and I am slowly building everything up again and even though I was down in the dumps for about 6 to 7 months I have never lost faith, completely I have lost some faith but not all of it.

One thing that I have learned in this process reflecting back on it there is negatives that come up like peoples for ever is not very long, and those who you thought you could trust is possibly the ones that will harm you the most and I can go on on a negative trend for another couple of pages but I found some solitude in focusing on new things finding new ways getting to know yourself from the bottom up. Yes I guess we all have some ugliness inside ourselves and I suppose you have to find that too. It took me some time to feel alive again to feel again and to trust again to some extent and a few pertinent things came up.

Explore your life find your dreams and live for it, life is too short and filled with too much sadness to focus on  but if you have a little light a dream a destination something that will make you happy and keep you healthy you should with all your power invest in it live for it and do it!

at first it was hard to do anything everyone seemed like an enemy so delved into the self got some good self help medicine ie Brian Tracey and Tony Robins and some (RIP) Zig Ziglar meds also did quite a bit. .

I decided to focus on nothing negative, just keep looking for the good in everything and if it/or them/or they persist on being negative cut them out stop the thought process of negatives . . .yeah it is hard especially if your hearts on the floor and your heads in the dark but with a little bit of effort you get through it and looking back its not that bad. . .as the future looks so good that what ever happened in the past is no reflection of what can happen in the future unless you allow it too affect it. . .So I decided to push onward forget what happened forget what others did and forge my own way, stop being afraid of what you can achieve stop stopping your own success stop reflecting on what can go wrong but rather what can go on, do whatever you can to lift yourself higher after all I am still young and have the opportunity to make something massive of the years I have left and I intend to, and so should you. . .There is nothing that can stop you from achieving your life's destiny but life itself and I would rather die trying than just wait around for the dying part. .

There is so much more opportunities now than there was ten years ago yeah the global finance issues and this and that forget about it, focus on the positive work around yourself improve your worth make a difference change not only your world but the world of all those around you. . .Like one of my customers reflected It begins with you. . .everything begins with you. . .I have been searching and looking for answers and secrets and changes and what ever you can think of to change my life from a semi sad broken soul to an achiever and I found it in a simple pure form and not through research or any special missions but simply by doing your best, being the best you can be (however cliche that may sound) it does boil down to expecting the best of yourself and treating everything that revolves around you in the same way, give your life your all give don't just expect the best from everyone else but begin with yourself push yourself to do more be more and mean more to everyone. . It is hard be honest to yourself your peers your kids everyone . . .and you will start to notice some massive differences in your world things will start to change.

Every day I work on making things better than the day before, I fail a lot of the time but I keep trying and even though I fail and falter it is great as at least i try and I learn, I improve i become more I mean more and I am sure I will earn more and more and not just money respect is earned love is earned, kindness goes a long way happiness is a state of mind and if you keep on improving you will feel the happiness of achieving things you never wanted to do but now do with ease life gets better even in hard times. . .adjust your attitude to find real altitude be remarkable in everything you do and if you fail. . .So what you have another chance to do it again and again and again until you get it right the way you want it to be done. . .So I hope this massive long post has some value honestly your Me. . .

Just a little movie inspiration . . .

So who doesnt love Sylvester Stalone and the Rocky series things so in one of the movies I came accross this gem (Yes every one quoted it before) But Im sure one more time is not enough . . .

I think if you take some time and think about it he has some truth in his words here


“When Things got hard, you started looking for something to blame. Like a Big Shadow.
Let me tell you something you already know…

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently IF YOU LET IT…

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But It ain’t about how hard you hit… it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much can you take and keep moving forward? THAT’S HOW WINNING IS DONE!

Now if you know what you’re worth, Go out and Get What Your Worth, But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. COWARDS DO THAT AND THAT AIN’T YOU! YOUR BETTER THEN THAT.”

I think that is pretty awesome thanks Mr movie Script writer for this peace of awesomeness. . .

So after a long struggling road Im making headway

So not worth sharing but I've been trough a bit of a rough path, and I'm not here to spill my guts but let me tell you one thing no manner through what you go, if you don't keep your wits about you it is very easy to lose yourself in your own problems so hold on tight and keep up the good fight. . .

So whats been getting me through all of this mess, I seriously cant pin it down possibly religion, good friends I am not sure how but I am working at it daily I keep busy the busier you keep the further you go I feel it is as if the more I work the less the problems come I spent about a month just contemplating but continued to read positive literature and work through the things I am by no means feeling ready to move on yet but I am getting there and its not that bad.  . .

Never loose faith in yourself

Well hello guys yes I suppose its time I stood up and started thinking straight again, I have been through a terrible rough patch and struggled to face the world let alone just the few people around me . . .every day has been hard and I'm tired of it I decided to step up and make a change but one thing apart from having a good friend to confide in, I have this vision of the future and where I want to be . . .And no matter how sad and unhappy I was feeling looking at this vision got me going every time. . .Yes it was a bit of a struggle but I got there, I wont say Im not still slightly feeling the effect of what I went through but I have to admit that a vision for your future and some dreams and goals can carry you on through most things. . .So if I can give one bit of advice ever it would be define yourself reach for you dreams and one day they will reach for you.

I am not there yet but working hard every day to attain what I want in my life and how I want my life to be. . .