So who am I to claim any success or even give advise on anything about success, I have to admit I am not the guru who sells tapes and I have no profitable mass business that is worldwide, I have some experience in being part of the universe for a while I have all my limb by the grace of God, I have some income and a roof over my head. . just an average Joe with some big dreams. . .So why am I so honest today? cause I feel I have to to share some motivation. I have worked hard all my life and attained some level of success and due to some unimaginable circumstances lost almost everything. By the Grace of God again I breathe every morning and health is still on my side I have been retrenched check lost my family check lost most of my possessions check and I am slowly building everything up again and even though I was down in the dumps for about 6 to 7 months I have never lost faith, completely I have lost some faith but not all of it.
One thing that I have learned in this process reflecting back on it there is negatives that come up like peoples for ever is not very long, and those who you thought you could trust is possibly the ones that will harm you the most and I can go on on a negative trend for another couple of pages but I found some solitude in focusing on new things finding new ways getting to know yourself from the bottom up. Yes I guess we all have some ugliness inside ourselves and I suppose you have to find that too. It took me some time to feel alive again to feel again and to trust again to some extent and a few pertinent things came up.
Explore your life find your dreams and live for it, life is too short and filled with too much sadness to focus on but if you have a little light a dream a destination something that will make you happy and keep you healthy you should with all your power invest in it live for it and do it!
at first it was hard to do anything everyone seemed like an enemy so delved into the self got some good self help medicine ie Brian Tracey and Tony Robins and some (RIP) Zig Ziglar meds also did quite a bit. .
I decided to focus on nothing negative, just keep looking for the good in everything and if it/or them/or they persist on being negative cut them out stop the thought process of negatives . . .yeah it is hard especially if your hearts on the floor and your heads in the dark but with a little bit of effort you get through it and looking back its not that bad. . .as the future looks so good that what ever happened in the past is no reflection of what can happen in the future unless you allow it too affect it. . .So I decided to push onward forget what happened forget what others did and forge my own way, stop being afraid of what you can achieve stop stopping your own success stop reflecting on what can go wrong but rather what can go on, do whatever you can to lift yourself higher after all I am still young and have the opportunity to make something massive of the years I have left and I intend to, and so should you. . .There is nothing that can stop you from achieving your life's destiny but life itself and I would rather die trying than just wait around for the dying part. .
There is so much more opportunities now than there was ten years ago yeah the global finance issues and this and that forget about it, focus on the positive work around yourself improve your worth make a difference change not only your world but the world of all those around you. . .Like one of my customers reflected It begins with you. . .everything begins with you. . .I have been searching and looking for answers and secrets and changes and what ever you can think of to change my life from a semi sad broken soul to an achiever and I found it in a simple pure form and not through research or any special missions but simply by doing your best, being the best you can be (however cliche that may sound) it does boil down to expecting the best of yourself and treating everything that revolves around you in the same way, give your life your all give don't just expect the best from everyone else but begin with yourself push yourself to do more be more and mean more to everyone. . It is hard be honest to yourself your peers your kids everyone . . .and you will start to notice some massive differences in your world things will start to change.
Every day I work on making things better than the day before, I fail a lot of the time but I keep trying and even though I fail and falter it is great as at least i try and I learn, I improve i become more I mean more and I am sure I will earn more and more and not just money respect is earned love is earned, kindness goes a long way happiness is a state of mind and if you keep on improving you will feel the happiness of achieving things you never wanted to do but now do with ease life gets better even in hard times. . .adjust your attitude to find real altitude be remarkable in everything you do and if you fail. . .So what you have another chance to do it again and again and again until you get it right the way you want it to be done. . .So I hope this massive long post has some value honestly your Me. . .
