Make your own destiny by fueling your dreams. . .

So who am I to claim any success or even give advise on anything about success, I have to admit I am not the guru who sells tapes and I have no profitable mass business that is worldwide, I have some experience in being part of the universe for a while I have all my limb by the grace of God, I have some income and a roof over my head. . just an average Joe with some big dreams. . .So why am I so honest today? cause I feel I have to to share some motivation. I have worked hard all my life and attained some level of success and due to some unimaginable circumstances lost almost everything. By the Grace of God again I breathe every morning and health is still on my side I have been retrenched check lost my family check lost most of my possessions check and I am slowly building everything up again and even though I was down in the dumps for about 6 to 7 months I have never lost faith, completely I have lost some faith but not all of it.

One thing that I have learned in this process reflecting back on it there is negatives that come up like peoples for ever is not very long, and those who you thought you could trust is possibly the ones that will harm you the most and I can go on on a negative trend for another couple of pages but I found some solitude in focusing on new things finding new ways getting to know yourself from the bottom up. Yes I guess we all have some ugliness inside ourselves and I suppose you have to find that too. It took me some time to feel alive again to feel again and to trust again to some extent and a few pertinent things came up.

Explore your life find your dreams and live for it, life is too short and filled with too much sadness to focus on  but if you have a little light a dream a destination something that will make you happy and keep you healthy you should with all your power invest in it live for it and do it!

at first it was hard to do anything everyone seemed like an enemy so delved into the self got some good self help medicine ie Brian Tracey and Tony Robins and some (RIP) Zig Ziglar meds also did quite a bit. .

I decided to focus on nothing negative, just keep looking for the good in everything and if it/or them/or they persist on being negative cut them out stop the thought process of negatives . . .yeah it is hard especially if your hearts on the floor and your heads in the dark but with a little bit of effort you get through it and looking back its not that bad. . .as the future looks so good that what ever happened in the past is no reflection of what can happen in the future unless you allow it too affect it. . .So I decided to push onward forget what happened forget what others did and forge my own way, stop being afraid of what you can achieve stop stopping your own success stop reflecting on what can go wrong but rather what can go on, do whatever you can to lift yourself higher after all I am still young and have the opportunity to make something massive of the years I have left and I intend to, and so should you. . .There is nothing that can stop you from achieving your life's destiny but life itself and I would rather die trying than just wait around for the dying part. .

There is so much more opportunities now than there was ten years ago yeah the global finance issues and this and that forget about it, focus on the positive work around yourself improve your worth make a difference change not only your world but the world of all those around you. . .Like one of my customers reflected It begins with you. . .everything begins with you. . .I have been searching and looking for answers and secrets and changes and what ever you can think of to change my life from a semi sad broken soul to an achiever and I found it in a simple pure form and not through research or any special missions but simply by doing your best, being the best you can be (however cliche that may sound) it does boil down to expecting the best of yourself and treating everything that revolves around you in the same way, give your life your all give don't just expect the best from everyone else but begin with yourself push yourself to do more be more and mean more to everyone. . It is hard be honest to yourself your peers your kids everyone . . .and you will start to notice some massive differences in your world things will start to change.

Every day I work on making things better than the day before, I fail a lot of the time but I keep trying and even though I fail and falter it is great as at least i try and I learn, I improve i become more I mean more and I am sure I will earn more and more and not just money respect is earned love is earned, kindness goes a long way happiness is a state of mind and if you keep on improving you will feel the happiness of achieving things you never wanted to do but now do with ease life gets better even in hard times. . .adjust your attitude to find real altitude be remarkable in everything you do and if you fail. . .So what you have another chance to do it again and again and again until you get it right the way you want it to be done. . .So I hope this massive long post has some value honestly your Me. . .

Just a little movie inspiration . . .

So who doesnt love Sylvester Stalone and the Rocky series things so in one of the movies I came accross this gem (Yes every one quoted it before) But Im sure one more time is not enough . . .

I think if you take some time and think about it he has some truth in his words here


“When Things got hard, you started looking for something to blame. Like a Big Shadow.
Let me tell you something you already know…

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently IF YOU LET IT…

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But It ain’t about how hard you hit… it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much can you take and keep moving forward? THAT’S HOW WINNING IS DONE!

Now if you know what you’re worth, Go out and Get What Your Worth, But you gotta be willing to take the hits. And not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him or her or anybody. COWARDS DO THAT AND THAT AIN’T YOU! YOUR BETTER THEN THAT.”

I think that is pretty awesome thanks Mr movie Script writer for this peace of awesomeness. . .

So after a long struggling road Im making headway

So not worth sharing but I've been trough a bit of a rough path, and I'm not here to spill my guts but let me tell you one thing no manner through what you go, if you don't keep your wits about you it is very easy to lose yourself in your own problems so hold on tight and keep up the good fight. . .

So whats been getting me through all of this mess, I seriously cant pin it down possibly religion, good friends I am not sure how but I am working at it daily I keep busy the busier you keep the further you go I feel it is as if the more I work the less the problems come I spent about a month just contemplating but continued to read positive literature and work through the things I am by no means feeling ready to move on yet but I am getting there and its not that bad.  . .

Never loose faith in yourself

Well hello guys yes I suppose its time I stood up and started thinking straight again, I have been through a terrible rough patch and struggled to face the world let alone just the few people around me . . .every day has been hard and I'm tired of it I decided to step up and make a change but one thing apart from having a good friend to confide in, I have this vision of the future and where I want to be . . .And no matter how sad and unhappy I was feeling looking at this vision got me going every time. . .Yes it was a bit of a struggle but I got there, I wont say Im not still slightly feeling the effect of what I went through but I have to admit that a vision for your future and some dreams and goals can carry you on through most things. . .So if I can give one bit of advice ever it would be define yourself reach for you dreams and one day they will reach for you.

I am not there yet but working hard every day to attain what I want in my life and how I want my life to be. . .

Motivate the motivation

Well hello motivated people again like when I started this blog I was at an all time low and I think I have reached a near drowning level again I will find myself and i will become what I intended to always be through the only way is up and soon I will be bold enough to try and aid in motivating the world through this little space please check in again soon. . .

Motivational Quick Fix

Hello Guys as most of you noticed I have been getting myself back into action again, I new fix that I have found is to watch some of these YouTube motivational vids it has had a great effect on me I must admit so some of the messages I have retyped and will post them every now and then as just a small little Quick fix for you. . .I am not sure who the authors are and where it comes from but definitely worth it!

"Pain is temporary it may last for a minute an hour or even a year eventually it will subside something else will take its place, if I quit however It will last for ever. Don’t quit when things get hard tackle your pain. . 


Go through your pain you aren't going to die, at the end of pain is success; you have to commit your being. To whatever you dream, you have to breathe, sleep, eat and live it and at the end of it you will get what you want you’ll be where you wanted to be!

You have to deal with pain, you have to take it and embrace it as the pain is a sure sign that you are reaching higher levels of achievement, Pain equals results, and nothing comes easy. . ."

I think that there is quite powerful may you all have a great day on-wards on push the extra mile, walk the distance. I am almost certain that we all know what we must do to get where we want to be no matter how hard it is if we are willing to do what ever it takes it we will get there inch by inch. . .

Wise words from a world famous idol liked or not

I checked this video today on YouTube and man did it touch me you have probably seen it or heard it but I just have to share (I jotted it down in notepad whilst i watched it for the 100th time thinking that there is really something there. . I missed a few sentences here and there but I think I got the message. . I have to say makes me look at Arnie a lot different, if you think about it he probably did it all and Champion at sports, movie actor, and politics. . .and I think there is true value in his words. . .

I cant will try and see if I can get the link again mmmm sorry cant find it again this one was special as the background was the transformers soundtrack and it was placed at the most perfect spots but any how, there are quite a couple of versions of it . . .

So think of these words and let me know what you think. . .

The Six ultimate rules to success – By Arnold Schwarzenegger

Trust yourself no matter what anyone thinks says or tells you, decide who you want to be not what but who figure out what is important to you what makes you happy

Break the rules not the laws but break the rules think outside the box be yourself do it your way, it is impossible to be a maverick by just following the rules

Don’t be afraid to fail always be willing to fail don’t be afraid to make mistakes you push because you believe in yourself, you can’t always win but don’t be afraid to fail.

Don’t listen to the Nay Sayers, there is nothing you cannot do there’s nothing you cannot accomplish, the highest accomplishment in life is doing what has never been done before

Work your butt off you never want to fail because you didn’t work hard enough leave no stone unturned when you feel pain that’s when it starts counting No pain no gain. If you want to win there is no other way around it, just hard work!

There’s 24 hours in a day you sleep for six hours and then there’s 18 hours left to accomplish your dreams, if you sleep j8 hours or 9 hours just sleep faster!

You can never reach the top with your hands in your pockets

Whatever path you take always make time to give something back tear down the mirror that always makes you look at yourself, look beyond at the millions that need your help reaching out and helping others will give you more satisfaction than anything you’ve ever experienced!

I think that is awesome sums it up quite nicely well guys have a great day on-wards and enjoy!.

Finding your own and building on yourself

So wow what a long time has passed since I last did anything here so I’m back to at least do one post a week may it be of whatever nature I hope it helps.

Finding the Self.

Probably the hardest topic hardest thing we can ever look at but without looking into the self how can you expect to be looking out! I’ve really had a very long time, hard yards with my inner self and my projected self and I somehow come to a load of weird conclusions.

Like you all know I started this blog quite some years ago as a vessel to actually contain myself within and drive myself forward which also came to certain amount of stoppage time and growth. I have read a couple of books and changed a few of my outcomes to moderate success but as of yet have not found completely what I was looking for. . .

So today I start this topic not quite sure where it will lead me or you and with no clear direction in an attempt to recapture my previous glories and in a way as a reset of my own inner findings and self. Almost like a test of my own growth and knowledge on a topic that is still slightly scary and obscure.

So let’s start with a few pointers in the self >> WHO ARE YOU! And most importantly WHO AM I?, what drives me forward what makes me believe in myself more than in others and what makes me ME and why is it important to be the best of me.

Now those few questions can ultimately make us perceive quite different arrays of our own inner self worth and self-image and can be frankly put rather daunting. Am I always my own or am I always myself am I the product of my past or the insecurity of my future. .

For me the past few days have been rather upsetting, stressful, and to be honest a true battle of wits and emotion. I find myself unsure of me and my passions my dreams and desires. I am lost within myself again. I do believe that being in this state has finally after 32 years been a conscious entry yet still uncomfortable but I feel rewarding. How can you go out and present yourself as great and wonderful as you are the world without true knowledge of exactly who and what you are. Find yourself deal with yourself and make a positive impact on yourself. 

Emotions which are probably the most important thing in our world can play havoc on our worlds. Earn these emotions and break them down, get to the bottom of things never ever let any negative or unhappy or unsavoury things upset the balance that you have created around yourself.

Find you balance, I think of all my dreams and goals and ideas on how to get your passion re-engaged. I have opened here a little and would like to continue with this process of getting through to you (Myself)    

Let’s start with the next post at a module to change and look at how can you truly find yourself solve anything that stands in your way to a brighter more fulfilling future and unlocking the true potential of your own self without being someone else but being yourself. I’m not saying you won’t change to be better but to be more of yourself at a more respectable level.

So in the next post I will be going through what I have learned about how to find the self first and make sure you keep the self in mind.

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