A new take on the inner happy!

There is two concepts that I have been dealing with the past few days that brought upon me a new understanding and a new enlightened thought.

We always hear about setting goals; believing in your destiny; keep moving towards your goals; be positive look for the good in everything; blah blah, the list goes on and on. And yes I believe those things but; I get down too, I get lonely, I get sad, hell I get severely depressed at times. 

So the past while I’ve been struggling with myself as per usual, self-sabotaging me lowering my standards, blame my expectations and list goes on! Even though I have luckily been trained by repeat and fail that being positive is the best way forward but forward where? I always get stuck at forward where? Trust me I have some serious goals, I have good work ethic when I’m not fighting myself. But overall I consider myself relatively well rounded. And yet still I have all these questions in myself.

I would come up with little mantra’s like you can do this, keep pushing on you’re going to make it! And so on and at times this doesn’t even help. Then I look back and remember why I started looking back to see forward! And that helps a bit. But tonight I came to an understanding something I have more and more of as time goes on it seems. 

It’s not just merely a fact of knowing where you’re going and having all these dreams and goals and destinies and processes of improvement but rather a choice, the choice to choose a better outcome the choice that we don’t control what happens tomorrow we actually have very little input in what happens apart from studying and working hard we don’t control much but we have the choice to keep moving forward for better, not just merely to become something else a better person or more financially free but to actually make our lives better. We have no control over what happens tomorrow but the decisions we make about today can ultimately shape the way of the things happening tomorrow!

If you let something negative impact you negatively and you keep dwelling and asking about it your going to miss the opportunities that lies ahead of you, you might not see the life lesson, you might not take a moment to meet your next best friend, you might miss a chance to change someone’s life for the better.

We must tread very cautiously yet confidently in the path of being our best as we are each moment, I am not saying that you shouldn’t push yourself and just be happen and kind not at all. I am merely repeating the few words that made me realize how important every moment really is.

Every moment spent being angry or sad or unhappy, unfulfilled whatever ; is a moment that you are missing out on the best thing you have that moment. Now this is not going to take away sadness or anything serious but it has the potentiality of changing everything your future holds the greatest gifts you have ever dreamed of if you just keep moving forward, does it matter if you make it? 

I’d say no! What matters is the way you arrive, with a happy open heart. So yes no matter what keep moving forward, not by having to push, or pull and fight, but because of your magic! Because you have a lightened heart . . . not because you are inherently happy but because you choose to be happy, you choose to accept the cards your dealt and keep pushing forward, try it and you will see there is more happy faces on the way when you’re smiling than when you’re not!

So the concepts that made me think of this all was one from a quote from Walt Disney, which was used in the movie “Meet the Robinsons” -  Walt Disney “Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things, because we're curious...and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.”

The second comes from a video I watch almost every day and never did it sink in until today, the author Unknown says: you can’t connect the dots looking forward, you just have to believe that somehow they will and they do looking back you’ll see!.

That doesn’t mean that life suddenly jumped around and all’s well? Not at the least but I feel for the first time in a long time, that everything is going to be better because I decide that I will see everything in a better light, to make the choice because I want to follow the path of discovery and new things new magic and wonderful places because I believe that it is out there and in here!

I hope that perhaps this message makes sense to someone else and that it may have the same effect on someone out there same as it had on me! If you have a similar story or a different story that you believe will touch someone’s perhaps somewhere share it please and perhaps with our sharing our thoughts and stories we might even change someone’s world. Good night!

Hello World! A refreshed welcome to all!

Hello World, as you probably have noticed I am not actually that new to the whole sphere of online discussions and hello’s (Who is?). This is a refreshed venture one that has only one goal; sharing some hope, if I can, making a difference and in essence talking to myself as well. Yes I talk from a lot of reading and guides and self-help tapes but sometimes all that goes away, and one forgets where you are and if you force yourself to tell people about the amazing wonder in and around every single life on this planet, it brings it all home again and so I set my sights on this journey as I work through some interesting mind ware. Perhaps for you? Perhaps not. I don’t mind, if I can help bring a small message to some amazing special person (Which we all are) somewhere in the digital universe I would have accomplished my goal!

So let’s start this journey at the beginning with a statement of our own inner magic, I believe that we human beings and aliens if you believe yourself to be one can do and achieve whatever we believe we can! Now off course I don’t believe you can grow wings and fly off into the sunset! But I do believe that you can make wings build them attach them to yourself and through constant and never ending attention to your dream fly off into the sunset!

Why is there so little belief left in the world, what made us unbelievers in our dreams? What stole our destinies? We did! Sad but true. How do I dare say that, well its true; I am not sure if you’ve hear the story before and I’m not sure where it came from but it is as follows: A baby circus elephant was tied to a peg in the ground, outside the circus tent, it struggled and tried to get loose but just couldn’t. As time went by the elephant grew much larger and still tied to the same peg, it has no will to fight it anymore. The elephant powerful as it is has become conditioned to the state of entrapment. The animal has been programmed to be content with its situation. 

As strong and powerful as it is it has forgotten about the possibility of even getting free. That is what happened to us we have through our lives been told, you can’t do this you can’t do that we’ve failed and let our own failures instead of teaching us how not to do something teach us that we can’t do something and that in itself is enough to make us stop! Well let’s stop stopping and start moving!

Where will we start, how will we undo this thing we’ve allowed ourselves to fall victim to? By believing different than what we’ve believed before, by telling ourselves daily; that we can and will; and want to do it; that we dream big again and that we begin to stop trying to make a living and start living a life worth living. Well that sounds pretty impressive up to the point where you ask yourself well how then??

Now I know as well as the next guy that saying I am awesome a million times aren’t going to get me well built so why use affirmations! But think of it this way, our minds for example only please is conditioned to think that; I am not built well, I am lazy and I am not worth much! So When I start telling myself with affirmations I am slowly working against what the world has taught me. Why not and to trick the subconscious on this little starter!!! 

Make it compelling; write it done on a piece of paper and say it as it is in the present tense (Who wants to be well liked and successful next year!) I don’t I want to start today. So do your affirmations the same! Is it going to change your life in an instance? 

No, but what I have noticed in my own mind that as soon as I start telling my mind what I want in the present it starts thinking “ Oh No the boss wants this how can we get it for him” So weather its good or bad your mind is obliged to act on it and provide in thoughts. So it drives your mind to see the opportunities it wouldn’t have whilst it was still in Down-Ville.

So with that said lets close for this week go look at what you put into your mind not only by affirmation’s but by everything self-focus, self-speak, self-questioning all things we will look at in the coming weeks as we walk together on making things great again What do you say. . .

I’m going to go and do some affirmations of my own!! Until the next post.